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In response to: "silly thing" 1396 days old
by  [Visitor]

Oh, I'm pleased you haven't left totally.
I'm off to try out some things on Google now and see how easy it would be to find me...
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In response to: "silly thing" 1433 days old
by wensum24 [Member]

we have to strike that fine balance, and I'm glad you say that we need some authenticity in our blogs...I agree with you.
but also, the point of expressing ourselves, sometimes privately, does make us more vulnerable...but that is part of blogging I guess.
the blog is OURS so if you write it, or delete it, that is our world, our space, more…

In response to: "silly thing" 1439 days old
by skip2468 [Member]

TOO SAFE IS OK -Don't put anything on your blog that might upset or offend any of your immediate family. Think first not later - which might be too late! more…

In response to: "silly thing" 1446 days old
by SnapHappy [Member]

thanks - kate is part of my actual name! more…

In response to: "silly thing" 1446 days old
by  [Visitor]

And besides.. Kate is a great name anyway!

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In response to: "silly thing" 1448 days old
by SnapHappy [Member]

not good i agree - because the whole beauty of this process is to be authentic - and i feel like being able to just be 'out there' with aspects of my life or whats in my head or heart has lead me to peace of mind. don't be cagey! go for it. more…

In response to: "silly thing" 1448 days old
by DD [Visitor]

Good. I had assumed not. take care. ...DD more…

In response to: "silly thing" 1449 days old
by  [Visitor]

Good! There is as you say something a bit special about anonymity ,however fragile, and self expression. more…

In response to: "silly thing" 1449 days old
by BubbleMan [Member]

Hey, had a thought about this a few weeks ago. My nickname that I blog under is a nickname that I use for other stuff too....got really scared about it....haven't gone as far as deleting stuff though. Glad that KD is not your real name as would be a bit reckless to use it.
Also made me start to think about the stuff I put down, should I be mo more…

In response to: "silly thing" 1449 days old
by SnapHappy [Member]

i know it isn't all that safe - but there is a feeling about having a blog anonymously that has been so freeing - i never really thought about whether it made me vulnerable. at the end of the day yesterday i realised that the things i deleted were just my story - i am who i am. i deleted them to make me feel more comfortable but i'm going to keep more…

In response to: "silly thing" 1449 days old
by SnapHappy [Member]

thanks for the good advice! kate davenport isn't my actual name more…

In response to: "silly thing" 1449 days old
by  [Visitor]

This is quite true DD.
The Internet is not a very private place at all Snaphappy, so if you you didn't want those posts to be avaialable then you probably made the right decision in deleting them.

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In response to: "silly thing" 1449 days old
by SensualReading [Member]

If you type your name into google it will show up on the listings and people can then look at what you have written and where....so its not private...hence people that do not want to be traced that way usually use their nickname in their profile rather than their actual name .....DD more…

In response to: "silly thing" 1450 days old
by SnapHappy [Member]

that's true actually - also i am growing into my blog - its been amazing to have this private place to communicate with and to read others pouring out, too - more…

In response to: "silly thing" 1450 days old
by SnapHappy [Member]

turned out that i just deleted past posts that i felt were really very private - and will keep the rest for now. will still blog in same way - but didn't need past experience with ex sitting there anyway - time to move on! more…

In response to: "silly thing" 1450 days old
by pwned [Member]

Unusual? Looking at all the blogs out there, i'd say it was getting to the point where it's more unusual if you don't have a blog! more…

In response to: "silly thing" 1450 days old
by Lila [Visitor]

What a pity ! :( more…